Just over three months into the year, I wrote a post to give all of you A QUICK UPDATE on my life this year. I’ve been getting a lot of people asking for further updates. So, I figure now that we’re another quarter into the year, perhaps it’s time for a second one.
When we left off, three months ago, I was in the hunt for a new place. Let me tell you, the search was NOT an easy one… The housing/rental market in Reno is pure insanity at the moment. I made appointments to go see places the day they went on the market, but by the time I arrived for my appointment (two and a half hours later), the houses were each already rented out.
I went to open houses so full of people that I had to stand shoulder to shoulder with strangers. I’ve never been to a Justin Bieber concert, but I imagine that it would be a similar experience… A bunch of people crammed together, each slightly embarrassed to show their eagerness to get to the front, but not so embarrassed as to not throw an occasional elbow.
Lucky for me, I did eventually find a place. I really had to sell myself to the landlords when I met them. They were looking for a long term tenant, who would be willing to take care of minor repairs on the house on their own. I pulled out all the stops, laid it on thick, and it certainly helped that I had a great credit score… Eventually I got the house, and the landlord informed me that I beat out 107 other applicants! The house had only been posted for a week.
Anyway, I got the place, then the move was the next stage. I hate moving… I don’t mind helping other people move… but my own stuff? Terrible.
I barely did any packing, and very little prepping. So when moving day finally came, I was very lucky to have some amazing friends who essentially did everything for me. Couldn’t/Wouldn’t have done it without each of you! Also, I realized that I have way too much crap… So there’s still a couple couches and a foosball table in my garage if anyone wants them… As well as some other random stuff.
The new house… I’m still getting used to it. There’s certain aspects of it that I really like, and other aspects that I really don’t. The biggest advantage though is that it is right next to a nice park. I realized that this was a big advantage weeks ago… and now that Pokémon Go is out, I cannot stress enough how amazing it is to have a park that close to my house. I’m loving it…
On to the next update topic… The new job! Last update I had recently given my two weeks’ notice at my job of seven years, and would be starting a new one soon. Well the new one has begun, and it’s been wonderful. I got an amazing new office, some great co-workers, and plenty of diverse work that keeps me engaged and interested.
At my old job, it became a daily grind. Corporate wasn’t open to new ideas, so it was simply a matter of doing the same thing, over and over, day in and day out. I ended up getting so bored with that job that I would play games with myself, like seeing how long I could work with my eyes just slightly crossed before getting a headache. Or attempting to type out entire emails only to the beat of whichever song was currently stuck in my head.
Thankfully, the new job keeps me busy, very busy, and with so much more than just a daily grind. I’m getting to do new and different things all the time! It’s pretty great. And at my last job, I had to wait five years before I got the chance to travel for work at all. Here, it’s only been a few months and I’ve already got travel arrangements.
That brings us to the third topic from my last update… my dating life. Last time I mentioned that I had just been on a couple dates with a girl, and she gave my butterflies in my stomach, and I thought she was special… I was clearly smitten.
Well, it lasted for a little while. In fact, we had the makings for a fantastic rom com script. But then real life happened, and soon after everything went to shit. At first I behaved like a puppy that had just had a shoe thrown at its head and didn’t know why. So I (figuratively and literally) cowered in the corner for a while, hanging my head in shame.
Then I tried reaching out (don’t drink and text kids, it’s stupid…) and didn’t get the answer I wanted. So once again I behaved like a puppy. This time I acted out, (only figuratively…) knocking over the trash can and peeing on the contents. My behavior was dumb, and I immediately regretted it. All I did was add to my already massive pile of embarrassment.
When it all started, I promised myself that I wasn’t going to go head over heels immediately, like I always do. But then things happened, and my promises went right out the window. So I went head over heels, and landed face first on the pavement.
After my childish behavior, I hoped to keep things amicable, so that we could at least remain on speaking terms; but apparently it’s too little too late. Now that I look back on everything, there were warning signs early on that I, of course, ignored. I would say that I’ve learned my lesson, and that next time I’ll pay attention to those signs before I get burned. But let’s face it… I won’t.
It’s very rare that I meet someone I genuinely like in that way, so when it happens, I fall hard and I fall fast. I am Ted Mosby. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I occasionally act like a child. That’s just me… deal with it… or don’t. Needless to say, the butterflies are gone, though I still think she's special and I wish her the best.
In other news, I haven’t been sleeping well again, for about the last two months… Not being able to fall asleep, then waking up again and again once I do finally get there. Sometimes I hate my brain and I wish I could read it my favorite bed time story… (GO THE FUCK TO SLEEP)
And as a final note, to wrap this update up, let’s talk about Pokémon Go. It’s so incredibly addicting. Yes, for those of you who are disgusted by this fad, I play it, and I’m quite proud of that fact. It’s a throwback to one of my favorite things from childhood, and frankly it makes for a fun escape from an otherwise stressful life.
So if you want to judge me for playing it, go right ahead, I don’t care. It’s fun… You do still remember what “fun” is, right? It may be childish, but I feel it’s important not to ever let go of the kid inside us.
When we were kids we all saw the world through lenses of wonder and magic, and it was that world that made us dream big. We weren’t dreaming of being mid-level management at an accounting firm, or fantasizing about getting a reserved parking spot at the office… We wanted to be heroes, we wanted to be marine biologists (even though we had no idea what that really meant), and we wanted to have fun every day of our lives.
For me at least, Pokémon Go taps into that. To see those characters that I loved, come to life in the real world… to see so many people my own age, running around parks with the same goofy grin on their faces… and most of all, to remember, even if only for a moment, what it was like to dream big… Those are the things that are making this game so addicting for me.
That, and my gym loyalty… Go Team Yellow!
As one last note, I’ve never wanted to download a dating app of any kind. I feel like they are a huge contributing factor to the degradation of romance in my generation (that’s a topic for a future blog). They’re terrible. However, I have met and seen plenty of very attractive women playing Pokémon Go now. And I have a built in ice breaker… I’m somewhat considering using this game as a dating app. Besides, then I know we have something in common already, and that she is still in touch with her inner child, which is nice.
Who knows? It could work… unless she’s on Team Red.... that's unforgivable.